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Clik here to view.A lot of people write off online dating as time consuming and inconvenient.  I beg to differ.

Last Sunday, I met a great woman off okcupid.com… just an hour after reading her profile. After getting Baskin Robbins, we fucked in a church parking lot.

I wasn’t just lucky: I’ve actually met several great women this way, and have had similar results.  I call it the Same Day Date, because you meet a girl the same day you contact her.

The Same Day Date is my favorite way of meeting women online.  The average guy will talk back and forth to a woman over several days.  When he finally does invite her to meet, they make plans to meet three days later.  For her, this is three days to get cold feet, find another guy, get bored change her outlook on life.

When a woman asks “when,” you say “how about right now,” and set yourself apart from other men.  When you meet a girl the same day you contact her, not only do you communicate that you are spontaneous, you’re inviting her to be spontaneous with you.  This is extremely romantic, and everybody wins.  It’s almost as if you are telling her “on this date, magic can happen.”

Make her jump through one hoop, and she’ll jump through another!

Not every girl is going to up for a Same Day Date.  But that’s the beauty of it.

Consider this.  Would you rather (a) discover a woman isn’t interested in you right off the bat, or (2) wait, take her out to dinner, spend $68 and waste three hours of your time… and THEN find out she’s not interested?

When you ask women to meet you RIGHT NOW, you’re doing what many refer to as a “compliance test.”  You’re seeing if she is going to jump through your hoop.  If she does, then there’s a good chance she’ll jump through more of your hoops later on.  If she doesn’t, well, that sucks, but at least you found a rapid way of screening out the women who are not right for you.

Women who want to wait three days to meet you are probably going to want to wait three dates for sex.  Women who are willing to meet you on the same day will be willing to have sex with you on the same day.

In addition to this being an effective way of getting laid, the Same Day Date can also lead to a great relationship.

Why?  Well, speed equals spontaneity.  Spontaneity implies adventure, and adventure is intriguing, exciting, emotionally thrilling and attractive.  These are the feelings that you’ll be giving women that will get them hooked to you.

Same Day Dates are great experiences.  Once, I met a woman I found off of match.com, and after a single order of bubble tea and we drove all the way to Ocean City.  We talked the whole way there and fucked in the motel until the morning when the cleaning lady walked in on us.

Another time a met a gorgeous, classy French girl on a Saturday afternoon and ended up with her that evening at a BYOB jazz club drinking wine and making out.  Classy.

Every time I meet a girl the same day I contact her this stuff happens.

The Same Day Date also means less drama for you as a man.

Think about it.  While Mr. Traditional is planning to meet a girl three days ahead of time, stressing about where to take her and how to act so that he can keep her interested, you have nothing to lose!  After all, you’ve only contacted her an hour ago.  What’s it to you if it doesn’t work out?  It’s a great frame of mind for you as a man to be in.  It’s dating the way dating should be.

Here’s how you can get more Same Day Dates:

1.)  Send her a personal message first before sending her an instant message.  A lot of women dismiss men who only IM.  If you write an actual message, it shows her you have something to say and you’re willing to wait for a response.  Some women will write back immediately, even if their chat feature is disabled.  If she writes back to you in under a minute, it’s almost as if she’s having a conversation with you.  Keep the conversation going.

3.)  After sending her a personal message, IM her.  Don’t just say “hey.”  Send her two IMs, to get the ball rolling.  I would recommend saying something like “are you available to chat?” followed by something flirtatious, like “saw you looking at my profile– you’re not stalking me, are you?”  Asking her if she’s free to chat is for your sake, because a lot of women are talking to three or four guys at a time.  You don’t want to compete with three guys, and you don’t want to wait 2 minutes every time for a response.  Just move on.

4.)  If it hooks, be playful and fun.  Banter, chat back and forth.  If she likes you, she’s keep the conversation lively as well.  Then ask her what she’s doing right now.  If she’s not doing anything, invite her to meet up with you.

5.)  Remember, not everyone’s going to be open to the Same Day Date, so don’t get frustrated if it doesn’t work every time.  Requesting a Same Day Date is also a way of determining very rapidly if you’re going to be able to take the lead or not.  If she’s not compliant, it probably wasn’t “meant to be” anyway, and be glad that you saved yourself a lot of time.  But if you do find that girl open to meeting you that very instant (or at most 24 hours ahead of time), chances are things are going to go very well for both of you.  

So how did I figure all this out?

Years and years of practice.

But I did find one silver bullet.  This guy is a master at online dating.  If you’re not yet familiar with Dave M.’s products, I highly recommend you check them out.

For the price of a traditional date, Insider Internet Dating will save you a lot of time… or… maybe not… my schedule is booked with women who want to meet me.  And just now I got a random text from a girl accusing me of playing hard to get.

How?  In Insider Internet Dating, Dave showed me a killer way of designing my online profile.

Not sure?  Check out his free video and see for yourself!

Of course, you also need an online dating profile.  Whether you plan on meeting women through friends, in bars, at the bookstore, or wherever… get an online dating profile.

In addition to there being an abundance of women on the Internet, online dating also allows you to keep track of interactions.  It’s a great way of practicing, learning from your mistakes, and noticing what you did right when you were successful.

And you don’t even have to get nervous approaching women.

In my opinion, match.com is the best site for online dating.  There are more women on match than ever, and the women that join are serious about wanting to meet guys.

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